I have been working diligently on a post about the good men and finding where they have all gone to. I say this because us women never stop talking about how impossible it is to find a good one. ‘They must all be taken’ is a common theme among the women I’ve encountered in this lifetime.
After some research and careful consideration, I’ve found that there are more good men out there than we could have imagined and they are right under our noses. Women – this has everything to do with our perception of what a good man is and how a man should act once we’ve found one. We usually discard the good ones as off, not that interesting, or to quote ‘He’s Just Not That Into You” (which should be a public service announcement to all women in my opinion,) there isn’t a “spark”. Now please don’t misunderstand me when I say all of this. I am not blaming women entirely for this situation. It has a lot to do with the majority of men out there whom we’ve encountered. (The official clan of D Bags.) The typical men we date or become involved with has changed what we have come to expect to the point that when we do finally find a good one, it seems all types of wrong.