People change…

Throughout my years I've heard so much debate over this subject. People don't really change is the most commonly accepted saying. (At least that's how it seems in the circles I find myself in) But what about the people who do change? Are they the exception to the rule? Or is the rule, not a rule …

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There are two types of people…

There are two types of people in the world: 1 - Givers 2 - Takers 1 - Givers want to give. They enjoy the feeling of giving to others. Whether it is time, gifts, money, love... Givers seem to have an endless supply of whatever is asked of them. And if they do run out …

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People watching…

I spend a lot of time commuting to and from work. A 35 mile drive in southern California traffic can take what seems like an eternity some days. Most of the time, it doesn't get to me. I crank up the music, dance in my car, make phone calls, (hands-free of course) etc. Today was …

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When you give good you get good…

So the other day I had a small rant about getting what you give. It isn't only about the Debbie downer part of that saying that people should hear. You literally get what you give. Especially with the good. I'm human. Bad stuff happens to me just like everyone else. In the past, if anything …

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Inch by inch…

To elaborate on my previous post about taking steps, I thought I'd share the results from the last time I took a huge leap of faith. For years, I worked in a job I was really good at. The job was easy for me but had social components that killed me in so many ways. …

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You get what you give…

I'm going to make this one quick and simple. You wouldn't expect a car to run forever on one tank of gas right? No. You need to refill the tank once you've driven enough. Same thing for people. Don't expect a person to keep going if you don't give back. There emotional bank account will …

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Moving on…

There are times when you give everything and it isn't enough. Whether it's a romantic or professional partnership, when there isn't an equal give and take, it's time to walk away to find a better match. Some people stay in these relationships for too long. I know I've been guilty of staying when I should …

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Prove it…

The problem with words is how powerful or meaningless they can be. This is true in so many different situations. A story of strength through adversity can inspire strength in the weak. Words spoken on finding love or losing it can make one believe in love even if they haven't experienced it firsthand. Reading or …

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Oh say can you see?

Here I go again dating myself... When I was in school, every morning we said the pledge of allegiance. It was just what we did. (I'm not starting in on a rant for why we need that in our schools so don't go thinking that.) We put out flags for Memorial Day, Independence Day, and all …

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A music video for anyone who’s ever lost love

Watch "Selena Gomez - Same Old Love" on YouTube https://youtu.be/9h30Bx4Klxg For anyone who's ever felt real heartbreak, you will understand the video more. Going through the motions and watching the world through heartbroken eyes changes your perspective. It is like when you're in love and every song reminds you of that special someone. Circumstances will …

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