Trust is a funny thing…

For some people, giving trust comes naturally. Others, it has to be earned before it is given. For me, I give it freely until there is a reason to question it.  I like to remember we are all only human. Mistakes are made and sometimes trust can be shaken in relationships whether it was earned …

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There was a minor set back…

Update on my friend who was recently dumped. I love my drive home. Each drive is an hour of uninterrupted chat time if I chose to use it that way. Today on my long drive home I decided to check in with my gal pal to see how she was feeling. She was in good enough spirits on …

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She knew what she wanted…

I have so many single girlfriends who all have the same complaint. They put themselves out there and can't seem to find a partner. I think that's why we women love weddings so much. Like, there is still a chance! She found one maybe I can too!! Let's dance to single ladies and really sing …

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She anticipated…

Earlier this week, a friend of mine was broken up with. She is a smart, talented, driven, not to mention beautiful inside and out type of woman. When she told me about her break up she was pretty broken up about it. I was pretty surprised he had called things off with my friend. They …

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It’s not you… It’s me…

After dealing with the whole Mercury in retrograde fiasco that has obviously been the cause of so many major problems for me recently (jk life just has the ups and downs) a friend sent me a super powerful message to cheer my spirits. It seems like everything has been going wrong even though I've tried …

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Shoulda coulda woulda…

Hindsight is 20/20... Anyone ever notice how all these annoying sayings are true? How about the if I knew then what I knew now... Ugh. All the sayings are true and whenever they get around to releasing the whereabouts of a working time machine (you know one must exist by now) I will be first …

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The last straw…

There comes a time when a person gets tired of accepting substandard treatment. There is a point when they finally come to terms with what is wrong, or what had been missing and they move on. Like actually move on. To those who have treated the above referenced people poorly, don't expect forgiveness to come …

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Mother’s day happened again…

According to my social media feed, moms everywhere were showered with love and attention. People spent time and energy with their moms today and that's awesome. For the mothers out there who didn't receive any special recognition on this day, I wanted to say you're great. You may be the hardest working woman out there. …

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People watching…

I spend a lot of time commuting to and from work. A 35 mile drive in southern California traffic can take what seems like an eternity some days. Most of the time, it doesn't get to me. I crank up the music, dance in my car, make phone calls, (hands-free of course) etc. Today was …

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