There was a minor set back…

Update on my friend who was recently dumped. I love my drive home. Each drive is an hour of uninterrupted chat time if I chose to use it that way. Today on my long drive home I decided to check in with my gal pal to see how she was feeling. She was in good enough spirits on …

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She knew what she wanted…

I have so many single girlfriends who all have the same complaint. They put themselves out there and can't seem to find a partner. I think that's why we women love weddings so much. Like, there is still a chance! She found one maybe I can too!! Let's dance to single ladies and really sing …

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She anticipated…

Earlier this week, a friend of mine was broken up with. She is a smart, talented, driven, not to mention beautiful inside and out type of woman. When she told me about her break up she was pretty broken up about it. I was pretty surprised he had called things off with my friend. They …

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It’s not you… It’s me…

After dealing with the whole Mercury in retrograde fiasco that has obviously been the cause of so many major problems for me recently (jk life just has the ups and downs) a friend sent me a super powerful message to cheer my spirits. It seems like everything has been going wrong even though I've tried …

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People watching…

I spend a lot of time commuting to and from work. A 35 mile drive in southern California traffic can take what seems like an eternity some days. Most of the time, it doesn't get to me. I crank up the music, dance in my car, make phone calls, (hands-free of course) etc. Today was …

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Tequila…

So I've been hearing about how tequila is the only alcohol that is not a depressant. I googled it... Seems legit. I'm testing this theory as I'm blogging now. I must say, I'm feeling pretty happy. Seeing how this may be an inconclusive test as I drank a few beers earlier, I will most likely …

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She said I USED to love you…

It's funny. Looking back on any failed relationship, whether it is professional, platonic or romantic, we all have moments of sadness. They say 'time heals all wounds'... But I feel that is an overstatement. Some cuts are so deep they will scar you. Sure, scars diminish over enough time, but they're always there right? It's …

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When you give good you get good…

So the other day I had a small rant about getting what you give. It isn't only about the Debbie downer part of that saying that people should hear. You literally get what you give. Especially with the good. I'm human. Bad stuff happens to me just like everyone else. In the past, if anything …

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Moving on…

There are times when you give everything and it isn't enough. Whether it's a romantic or professional partnership, when there isn't an equal give and take, it's time to walk away to find a better match. Some people stay in these relationships for too long. I know I've been guilty of staying when I should …

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