She knew what she wanted…

I have so many single girlfriends who all have the same complaint. They put themselves out there and can't seem to find a partner. I think that's why we women love weddings so much. Like, there is still a chance! She found one maybe I can too!! Let's dance to single ladies and really sing …

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She anticipated…

Earlier this week, a friend of mine was broken up with. She is a smart, talented, driven, not to mention beautiful inside and out type of woman. When she told me about her break up she was pretty broken up about it. I was pretty surprised he had called things off with my friend. They …

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It’s not you… It’s me…

After dealing with the whole Mercury in retrograde fiasco that has obviously been the cause of so many major problems for me recently (jk life just has the ups and downs) a friend sent me a super powerful message to cheer my spirits. It seems like everything has been going wrong even though I've tried …

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She said I USED to love you…

It's funny. Looking back on any failed relationship, whether it is professional, platonic or romantic, we all have moments of sadness. They say 'time heals all wounds'... But I feel that is an overstatement. Some cuts are so deep they will scar you. Sure, scars diminish over enough time, but they're always there right? It's …

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When you give good you get good…

So the other day I had a small rant about getting what you give. It isn't only about the Debbie downer part of that saying that people should hear. You literally get what you give. Especially with the good. I'm human. Bad stuff happens to me just like everyone else. In the past, if anything …

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Inch by inch…

To elaborate on my previous post about taking steps, I thought I'd share the results from the last time I took a huge leap of faith. For years, I worked in a job I was really good at. The job was easy for me but had social components that killed me in so many ways. …

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Bye Bye Blues

Lately I've spent a lot of time feeling blue. I tried so many things to shake it. Tried staying busy with any type of distraction. Picked up extra shifts at work, took on big projects, went out with old friends, called my friends nonstop... even made several strategic plans with steps on how to get …

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The Stars Above Me… Explained

I've posted this poem in the past. I never wanted to explain the why behind it until now. There was a person in my life whom I loved very deeply. Beyond reason, actually. It was the type of love that didn't make much sense. This person hurt me so many times, in so many different …

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