She knew what she wanted…

I have so many single girlfriends who all have the same complaint. They put themselves out there and can't seem to find a partner. I think that's why we women love weddings so much. Like, there is still a chance! She found one maybe I can too!! Let's dance to single ladies and really sing …

Continue reading She knew what she wanted…

She anticipated…

Earlier this week, a friend of mine was broken up with. She is a smart, talented, driven, not to mention beautiful inside and out type of woman. When she told me about her break up she was pretty broken up about it. I was pretty surprised he had called things off with my friend. They …

Continue reading She anticipated…

People watching…

I spend a lot of time commuting to and from work. A 35 mile drive in southern California traffic can take what seems like an eternity some days. Most of the time, it doesn't get to me. I crank up the music, dance in my car, make phone calls, (hands-free of course) etc. Today was …

Continue reading People watching…

Tequila…

So I've been hearing about how tequila is the only alcohol that is not a depressant. I googled it... Seems legit. I'm testing this theory as I'm blogging now. I must say, I'm feeling pretty happy. Seeing how this may be an inconclusive test as I drank a few beers earlier, I will most likely …

Continue reading Tequila…

When you give good you get good…

So the other day I had a small rant about getting what you give. It isn't only about the Debbie downer part of that saying that people should hear. You literally get what you give. Especially with the good. I'm human. Bad stuff happens to me just like everyone else. In the past, if anything …

Continue reading When you give good you get good…

Inch by inch…

To elaborate on my previous post about taking steps, I thought I'd share the results from the last time I took a huge leap of faith. For years, I worked in a job I was really good at. The job was easy for me but had social components that killed me in so many ways. …

Continue reading Inch by inch…

The first step…

I've posted about this before... But taking a leap of faith is hard. Wanting something so badly but not knowing if you'll ever attain it is a feeling that's hard to live with. What feeling might be worse? Going after what you want with a very real possibility that it won't work out in your …

Continue reading The first step…

Moving on…

There are times when you give everything and it isn't enough. Whether it's a romantic or professional partnership, when there isn't an equal give and take, it's time to walk away to find a better match. Some people stay in these relationships for too long. I know I've been guilty of staying when I should …

Continue reading Moving on…

Prove it…

The problem with words is how powerful or meaningless they can be. This is true in so many different situations. A story of strength through adversity can inspire strength in the weak. Words spoken on finding love or losing it can make one believe in love even if they haven't experienced it firsthand. Reading or …

Continue reading Prove it…