There was a minor set back…

Update on my friend who was recently dumped. I love my drive home. Each drive is an hour of uninterrupted chat time if I chose to use it that way. Today on my long drive home I decided to check in with my gal pal to see how she was feeling. She was in good enough spirits on …

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She knew what she wanted…

I have so many single girlfriends who all have the same complaint. They put themselves out there and can't seem to find a partner. I think that's why we women love weddings so much. Like, there is still a chance! She found one maybe I can too!! Let's dance to single ladies and really sing …

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It’s not you… It’s me…

After dealing with the whole Mercury in retrograde fiasco that has obviously been the cause of so many major problems for me recently (jk life just has the ups and downs) a friend sent me a super powerful message to cheer my spirits. It seems like everything has been going wrong even though I've tried …

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The last straw…

There comes a time when a person gets tired of accepting substandard treatment. There is a point when they finally come to terms with what is wrong, or what had been missing and they move on. Like actually move on. To those who have treated the above referenced people poorly, don't expect forgiveness to come …

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People watching…

I spend a lot of time commuting to and from work. A 35 mile drive in southern California traffic can take what seems like an eternity some days. Most of the time, it doesn't get to me. I crank up the music, dance in my car, make phone calls, (hands-free of course) etc. Today was …

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Tequila…

So I've been hearing about how tequila is the only alcohol that is not a depressant. I googled it... Seems legit. I'm testing this theory as I'm blogging now. I must say, I'm feeling pretty happy. Seeing how this may be an inconclusive test as I drank a few beers earlier, I will most likely …

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She said I USED to love you…

It's funny. Looking back on any failed relationship, whether it is professional, platonic or romantic, we all have moments of sadness. They say 'time heals all wounds'... But I feel that is an overstatement. Some cuts are so deep they will scar you. Sure, scars diminish over enough time, but they're always there right? It's …

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Moving on…

There are times when you give everything and it isn't enough. Whether it's a romantic or professional partnership, when there isn't an equal give and take, it's time to walk away to find a better match. Some people stay in these relationships for too long. I know I've been guilty of staying when I should …

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