Trust is a funny thing…

For some people, giving trust comes naturally. Others, it has to be earned before it is given. For me, I give it freely until there is a reason to question it.  I like to remember we are all only human. Mistakes are made and sometimes trust can be shaken in relationships whether it was earned …

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As always… Tuesday sucked…

We've all heard that b.s. about Monday being so awful. 'Case of the Monday's' and all. I agree that Monday sucks. But what about Tuesday? Tuesday is by far the worst day of the week. Here is why I have deemed Tuesday the worst day of the week: Let's start from the middle of the …

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Shoulda coulda woulda…

Hindsight is 20/20... Anyone ever notice how all these annoying sayings are true? How about the if I knew then what I knew now... Ugh. All the sayings are true and whenever they get around to releasing the whereabouts of a working time machine (you know one must exist by now) I will be first …

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When you give good you get good…

So the other day I had a small rant about getting what you give. It isn't only about the Debbie downer part of that saying that people should hear. You literally get what you give. Especially with the good. I'm human. Bad stuff happens to me just like everyone else. In the past, if anything …

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Inch by inch…

To elaborate on my previous post about taking steps, I thought I'd share the results from the last time I took a huge leap of faith. For years, I worked in a job I was really good at. The job was easy for me but had social components that killed me in so many ways. …

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The first step…

I've posted about this before... But taking a leap of faith is hard. Wanting something so badly but not knowing if you'll ever attain it is a feeling that's hard to live with. What feeling might be worse? Going after what you want with a very real possibility that it won't work out in your …

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You get what you give…

I'm going to make this one quick and simple. You wouldn't expect a car to run forever on one tank of gas right? No. You need to refill the tank once you've driven enough. Same thing for people. Don't expect a person to keep going if you don't give back. There emotional bank account will …

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Moving on…

There are times when you give everything and it isn't enough. Whether it's a romantic or professional partnership, when there isn't an equal give and take, it's time to walk away to find a better match. Some people stay in these relationships for too long. I know I've been guilty of staying when I should …

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Prove it…

The problem with words is how powerful or meaningless they can be. This is true in so many different situations. A story of strength through adversity can inspire strength in the weak. Words spoken on finding love or losing it can make one believe in love even if they haven't experienced it firsthand. Reading or …

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Heartbreaker

I've been very lucky in life. I've found love almost as easily as I've given it. That being said, as many know, with the mountaintops of life come the valleys. Although I've loved much, I've also endured a lot of heartbreak. When my life takes a trip to the valleys it is easy to get …

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