New with a past…

So you started seeing someone new. Everything is awesome. You like them, they like you, and everything is super shiny and new in your cute little beginning of a relationship. The stories have never been told before, and jokes are extra funny. You want to take this person around and parade them around like you …

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I made plans…

I swear God laughs every time we make any. I like to imagine God hanging out with angels up in heaven watching us down here with our 'plans'.. They'd be cracking up, sipping on some water he just turned into wine.. As he gasps for air between belly laughs he says to one angel, did …

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People change…

Throughout my years I've heard so much debate over this subject. People don't really change is the most commonly accepted saying. (At least that's how it seems in the circles I find myself in) But what about the people who do change? Are they the exception to the rule? Or is the rule, not a rule …

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There are two types of people…

There are two types of people in the world: 1 - Givers 2 - Takers 1 - Givers want to give. They enjoy the feeling of giving to others. Whether it is time, gifts, money, love... Givers seem to have an endless supply of whatever is asked of them. And if they do run out …

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People watching…

I spend a lot of time commuting to and from work. A 35 mile drive in southern California traffic can take what seems like an eternity some days. Most of the time, it doesn't get to me. I crank up the music, dance in my car, make phone calls, (hands-free of course) etc. Today was …

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Tequila…

So I've been hearing about how tequila is the only alcohol that is not a depressant. I googled it... Seems legit. I'm testing this theory as I'm blogging now. I must say, I'm feeling pretty happy. Seeing how this may be an inconclusive test as I drank a few beers earlier, I will most likely …

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She said I USED to love you…

It's funny. Looking back on any failed relationship, whether it is professional, platonic or romantic, we all have moments of sadness. They say 'time heals all wounds'... But I feel that is an overstatement. Some cuts are so deep they will scar you. Sure, scars diminish over enough time, but they're always there right? It's …

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When you give good you get good…

So the other day I had a small rant about getting what you give. It isn't only about the Debbie downer part of that saying that people should hear. You literally get what you give. Especially with the good. I'm human. Bad stuff happens to me just like everyone else. In the past, if anything …

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Inch by inch…

To elaborate on my previous post about taking steps, I thought I'd share the results from the last time I took a huge leap of faith. For years, I worked in a job I was really good at. The job was easy for me but had social components that killed me in so many ways. …

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The first step…

I've posted about this before... But taking a leap of faith is hard. Wanting something so badly but not knowing if you'll ever attain it is a feeling that's hard to live with. What feeling might be worse? Going after what you want with a very real possibility that it won't work out in your …

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