There was a minor set back…

Update on my friend who was recently dumped. I love my drive home. Each drive is an hour of uninterrupted chat time if I chose to use it that way. Today on my long drive home I decided to check in with my gal pal to see how she was feeling. She was in good enough spirits on …

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She knew what she wanted…

I have so many single girlfriends who all have the same complaint. They put themselves out there and can't seem to find a partner. I think that's why we women love weddings so much. Like, there is still a chance! She found one maybe I can too!! Let's dance to single ladies and really sing …

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She anticipated…

Earlier this week, a friend of mine was broken up with. She is a smart, talented, driven, not to mention beautiful inside and out type of woman. When she told me about her break up she was pretty broken up about it. I was pretty surprised he had called things off with my friend. They …

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It’s not you… It’s me…

After dealing with the whole Mercury in retrograde fiasco that has obviously been the cause of so many major problems for me recently (jk life just has the ups and downs) a friend sent me a super powerful message to cheer my spirits. It seems like everything has been going wrong even though I've tried …

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She said I USED to love you…

It's funny. Looking back on any failed relationship, whether it is professional, platonic or romantic, we all have moments of sadness. They say 'time heals all wounds'... But I feel that is an overstatement. Some cuts are so deep they will scar you. Sure, scars diminish over enough time, but they're always there right? It's …

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Moving on…

There are times when you give everything and it isn't enough. Whether it's a romantic or professional partnership, when there isn't an equal give and take, it's time to walk away to find a better match. Some people stay in these relationships for too long. I know I've been guilty of staying when I should …

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Bye Bye Blues

Lately I've spent a lot of time feeling blue. I tried so many things to shake it. Tried staying busy with any type of distraction. Picked up extra shifts at work, took on big projects, went out with old friends, called my friends nonstop... even made several strategic plans with steps on how to get …

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The Stars Above Me… Explained

I've posted this poem in the past. I never wanted to explain the why behind it until now. There was a person in my life whom I loved very deeply. Beyond reason, actually. It was the type of love that didn't make much sense. This person hurt me so many times, in so many different …

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Heartbreaker

I've been very lucky in life. I've found love almost as easily as I've given it. That being said, as many know, with the mountaintops of life come the valleys. Although I've loved much, I've also endured a lot of heartbreak. When my life takes a trip to the valleys it is easy to get …

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A failed experiment to stop crying

Have you ever cried for enough time that you realize the amount of time you've been crying? That happened to me today. I cried for so long that I looked at the clock, did the math and thought, "oh my God why can't I stop crying?" *Note: it took longer than expected to do the …

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