People change…

Throughout my years I've heard so much debate over this subject. People don't really change is the most commonly accepted saying. (At least that's how it seems in the circles I find myself in) But what about the people who do change? Are they the exception to the rule? Or is the rule, not a rule …

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There are two types of people…

There are two types of people in the world: 1 - Givers 2 - Takers 1 - Givers want to give. They enjoy the feeling of giving to others. Whether it is time, gifts, money, love... Givers seem to have an endless supply of whatever is asked of them. And if they do run out …

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People watching…

I spend a lot of time commuting to and from work. A 35 mile drive in southern California traffic can take what seems like an eternity some days. Most of the time, it doesn't get to me. I crank up the music, dance in my car, make phone calls, (hands-free of course) etc. Today was …

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She said I USED to love you…

It's funny. Looking back on any failed relationship, whether it is professional, platonic or romantic, we all have moments of sadness. They say 'time heals all wounds'... But I feel that is an overstatement. Some cuts are so deep they will scar you. Sure, scars diminish over enough time, but they're always there right? It's …

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When you give good you get good…

So the other day I had a small rant about getting what you give. It isn't only about the Debbie downer part of that saying that people should hear. You literally get what you give. Especially with the good. I'm human. Bad stuff happens to me just like everyone else. In the past, if anything …

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Inch by inch…

To elaborate on my previous post about taking steps, I thought I'd share the results from the last time I took a huge leap of faith. For years, I worked in a job I was really good at. The job was easy for me but had social components that killed me in so many ways. …

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You get what you give…

I'm going to make this one quick and simple. You wouldn't expect a car to run forever on one tank of gas right? No. You need to refill the tank once you've driven enough. Same thing for people. Don't expect a person to keep going if you don't give back. There emotional bank account will …

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Love is…

I'm fortunate enough to have many people in my life to love. I have my family to love. That goes without saying. But there are so many people I've met over the years who have worked their way into my heart as well. It seems love is an easy emotion for me to have. What …

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Moving on…

There are times when you give everything and it isn't enough. Whether it's a romantic or professional partnership, when there isn't an equal give and take, it's time to walk away to find a better match. Some people stay in these relationships for too long. I know I've been guilty of staying when I should …

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